There was a party in the park near my home where people gathered to dance to live DJ’s. I saw his face…he saw mine…we both smiled. Our smiles led to a brief relationship of no commitment. I eventually moved on and so did he.
Last year…
Last year we started talking again since Facebook became popular for a lot of our high school “friends”. He spoke a lot about sex and I wasn’t trying to go there with him again without a commitment, so we went our seperate ways yet again.
Fast forward a few months…
So I met a guy on FB that I remembered from high school that was friends with the other guy. We had a great relationship until he decided he wanted to become celibate. The other guy told him he had been seeing one of my real friends and that he was digging her. I was fine with them dating, if it was true, but why didn’t she tell me about it? She and I had spoken about the guy plenty of times and she knew of our past. I decided that I needed to talk to her since it was weighing on my thoughts heavily about our friendship. She wouldn’t return my calls until one night she called me back. She was upset that I knew about them without telling her that I knew. I was shocked! Why should I have come to her first when she knew about me and the guy all along? I see our friendship wasn’t what I thought it was all along.
